About Me
Let’s get one thing straight …I’m not new to knowing what I want. But when it comes to kink, I’m still evolving. I’m a switch …I embody both submissive and dominant energy, and I lean into whichever side feels most natural with the right person. I don’t perform roles….I live in them. Energy doesn’t lie.
💋 My Submissive Side
When I submit, it’s a full-body, full-heart surrender. But only for a man who knows how to lead…not just with rules, but with presence, care, and consistency. I’m not giving up control because I’m lost….I give it because I trust you enough to guide me. That’s earned. I respond to calm dominance, a firm tone, praise, and patience. Don’t bark at me….I’m not your pet. Dom me like a woman you respect, not a toy you own.
What I look for in a Dominant:
• Consistency > cruelty
• Confident leadership
• A man who prioritizes aftercare and emotional safety
• Someone who knows what service really means
• Sensual Sadists or nurturing Daddy Doms welcome
• Mental dominance. If you can get in my head, you’ll have the rest of me easily
🖤 Aftercare Matters:
I need to know I’m still held when the scene ends. Touch, words, water, softness. Without that, the whole experience feels unfinished. If you don’t believe in aftercare, we’re not a match.
🔥 My Dominant Side
When I Dom, I don’t yell. I don’t need to. My control comes through my energy…through the way I look at you, speak to you, slow you down. I love men who ache to serve. Who crave direction. Who get off on my pleasure more than theirs. I love teasing, withholding, training, and rewarding. I expect devotion…but I give so much when it’s earned.
What I look for in a Submissive:
• A man who finds joy in obedience
• Emotionally available and honest about his limits
• Into service, worship, and pleasing without pressure
• Humble, but not weak
• Playful and eager to learn
• Not afraid to be soft, ***, or needy—that turns me on
My Boundaries:
• No shit play
• No permanent marks
• I won’t Dom someone emotionally unavailable
• I don’t rush into anything—no scenes before trust
• Don’t call me “Mistress” or “baby girl” without permission
Experience Level:
I’ve played lightly in both roles…some real-life, some online…but I’m hungry to go deeper. I’m not new to sex, but kink is still something I’m exploring more intentionally now. I study, I ask, I listen. I’ll take my time finding someone who makes me feel safe to fully open.
Fantasies I’m open to exploring:
• Power exchange with deep emotional connection
• Erotic *** or praise kink
• Orgasm control and edging
• Light bondage and restraint
• Body worship (on both sides)
• Rituals, structure, rewards
• Sensual submission or FemDom tease & denial
Final Word:
I’m not interested in being collected, tested, or manipulated. I want authentic connections …with people who respect the complexity of being both soft and powerful. Talk to me like a real person first. Ask. Listen. Build trust. Chemistry takes time…but I promise, I’m worth it 😘
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